We started building our family with no inheritance at the age of 29, and now, after eight years together, my husband and I have accumulated assets worth VND15 billion, equivalent to approximately US$589,000.
In the context of inheritance, not all parents render equal treatment to their children. There are instances where parents exhibit favouritism towards a child, undeserving of it. Conversely, some parents withhold inheritance to secure their own financial stability, apprehensive that their children might squander their wealth.
My spouse has a strained relationship with his parents, despite being considerate and well-mannered towards them. Their disapproval didn’t start when we were married; I noticed it was ongoing even before we wed. I think their grudge might stem from his introverted nature, as he tends not to try to ingratiate himself with them or seek their approval.
We were aware of this, so we decided to rely solely on our own efforts. We worked diligently to achieve what we have today, never expecting or counting on an inheritance. We accepted the possibility that our parents might leave us nothing. We believed that, if anything, they may lean on us in the future if we become prosperous, or if our other siblings ignore them.
My honest opinion is to not assume you’ll receive an inheritance. It’s impossible to be certain your parents will leave you anything. Consider focusing on building your own life and success. Once you have assets created by you, even if you’re dealt an unfair hand, it will still give you a sense of pride compared to being both resented and looked down upon.
If you’re the less preferred child in your household, rather than placing blame on your parents, it is more beneficial to adjust and learn to live accordingly. Many people wish to have been born into a privileged environment and enjoy a happy life from start to finish. However, how many individuals actually encounter such a flawless existence?
The key to success is to seize a chance to better yourself. My wife and I began with nothing at the age of 29, and over a period of eight years, we have built a fortune worth VND15 billion. We achieved this by beginning early, giving each other support, and dedicating ourselves to our objectives.
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